Apparently, the pastor at Steve McNair’s memorial service has warned everyone not to be judgmental. It is certainly dangerous for us to judge the true inner quality of McNair’s heart (or anyone else’s) but should we ignore the problem of infidelity and its destructive nature?
Many women have found out, to their heartbreak, that men are scoundrels. In fact, there is even a book out there entitled All Men Are Jerks Unless Proven Otherwise.
Scientist/theologian Emanuel Swedenborg became particularly aware of infidelity as being a big problem among those who call themselves “Christians.” Swedenborg learned directly from commuting with angels that women have an innate leaning to loving ONE man but that men must learn this from religious principles and then apply them to their lives.
Men have a love for the entire opposite sex! If they do not learn from religious tenets to resist this inclination, the compulsion to “cheat” on their wives only intensifies.
Why do men need to become faithful from a spiritual principle?
Because men do not see cheating as a SIN or damning to their souls. Men give little conscious thought to these compulsions because they are only focused on their pleasures. These pleasures seduce a man’s thinking and distract rational reflection. Therefore, until men are taught that this is damning behavior and actual EVIL, they will continue to freely delight in these actions and even call them “good.”
Why, then, has Christianity failed men? One reason is the erroneous doctrine of salvation by faith alone, which discredits introspection. The other reason is that men also falsely believe that merely going to church and participating in the sacraments cleanses them of their personal transgressions—even if they make no attempt to change.
I believe that women becoming bigger players in the work force, and now representing the majority among university students, is just as much a response to the failures of men as it is to find new opportunities and fulfill their personal ambitions.
Sorry guys—you’re blowing it, big time!